It was a beautiful morning on Thursday, January 21, 2010 as we gathered to say a final goodbye to my dad. The weather forecast said it might be sleeting rain and possibly even snow, but it was clear and sunny. Same as it was when my mom was buried in early March. I'd like to think they both had a hand in keeping things pleasant those days, to remind us all they're okay and to be warmed by their spirits. On Friday at the same time the service was, there was sleeting rain and I couldn't help but appreciate this final gift to us all of a beautiful day.
Earlier in the week, I also felt warmed by my dad's spirit when they sang the very same song in church as the priest sang during Vivian's baptism. I've never heard that sung in our church before, and I do think it was my dad letting me know he's still with me. He was very much there at the baptism and is still here today. I am sure he knows how much I miss him.
Annette, Jackie and I were so grateful to those who made the effort to come to the service. And we know there were so many others who were with us that day - even without their physical presence. Annette's son-in-law took beautiful photos of the service and it was such a fitting tribute to a true patriot. Please view the slide show at this link.
I don't anticipate future posts, outside of adding a picture of the headstone when it is finished. But if any other reason warrants, I certainly will.
We are so happy to have been invited to participate in your Father's ceremony and see the grandeur of his internment. Your memories of his life and his passing are amplified by your love for him and his accomplishments. We hope both your father and mother are resting in God's love forever.
ReplyDeleteI wish I could have been there physically, but I was with you in spirit. The pictures are a wonderful record of the beautiful ceremony. And yes, I agree that both your mom and dad had a hand in the wonderful sunny weather!
ReplyDeleteIn some spiritual way, Drew was cured of cancer. God took him home and ended his discomfort. Drew was a bright star in this world; the brightness of his star will surely continue on in Heaven. I am grateful that his final salute was such a beautiful day.
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ReplyDeleteSo sorry about your dad,,he was a very nice man.
I know what your feeling right now,,as i just lost my dad in december.I try to look at the goods side of things,,,like, what did the angel"s face look like when dad got there,,,god knows how to pick the best,,oh how lucky there are to be in heaven.I"ts the hardest thing i've had to deal with.But we must move forward,and thank the lord we had them as long as we did..God bless.
Sorry we could not attend but we were with you in Spirit. Drew is thought of often and missed dearly! So glad it was a beautiful day..Seems fitting doesn't it! Our love to you and your family!
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Drew...... What can I say... Today is November 15, 2010. You are on alot of peoples mind today and everyday. You are greatly missed. I know you would not want anyone to still dwell on your passing a year ago today, but you are still thought of and missed each and everyday. I know you are very proud of how your 2 daughters and their husbands are raising your 5 wonderful grandkids. They had great examples with you and Linda. Well Big Brother rest easy with the knowledge "You Did Good" !!
ReplyDeleteLove..... your baby sister
So sorry to hear about all this at such a late date. (It's almost a year.) Just got an email from one friend who heard it from another. I had no idea your dad was even sick. Once he remarried our correspondence sort of tapered off. (Knew Linda since before high school and was with her the night she first met your dad. Last saw Drew and you at your mom's funeral.) God's peace be with you all. Mary K
ReplyDeleteHi Mary - Robin Wojtanik here. I didn't see your post on my dad's blog until tonight. You wrote it two years ago. I've really avoided going on his blog. I didn't realize you had posted. Feel free to get in touch with me - I would love to hear any stories or memories of them. robin36@gmail.com
DeleteMerry Christmas Drew !! Miss ya.
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ReplyDeleteI'm very sorry for your loss. I have a quick question about your blog, would you mind emailing me when you get a chance?
Thanks,
Cameron
I'm not sure what question you need answering...or who you are? Thanks.
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